Which metal should I choose for my breastmilk jewellery?

When ordering a piece of breastmilk jewellery, one of the main decisions to make is what metal you'd like it to be made from. The answer depends on personal aesthetic preference and how often and under what circumstances you'll be wearing the jewellery. There's no reason you can't even mix metals a little in a piece like the beaded bracelet or for a necklace with an initial tag.

A breastmilk beaded bracelet made for Charlotte with silver beads but gold filled breastmilk charm, initial tag and birthstone.

Choosing the Right Metal for Your Breastmilk Jewellery

To help you make an informed choice, here's a brief overview of each of the metal types I offer for breastmilk jewellery.

Sterling/Argentium Silver

The most popular metal choice, silver is affordable, relatively durable, and a timeless option. Silver will tarnish over time, which is unavoidable. However, with regular polishing, it can be brought back to a shine with relative ease.

The Simple Ring in Silver

Gold Vermeil

All of my gold vermeil pieces have silver at their core. The silver is then plated with a thin (immeasurable) layer of yellow or rose gold. This is an affordable alternative to solid gold and is also less expensive than gold filled. It is important to note that with enough wear, the plated layer will wear away, exposing the silver underneath. Eventually, you may be left with silver jewellery.

The Heart Pendant in Rose Gold Vermeil

Gold Filled

Gold filled jewellery features a base metal core to which 14ct gold is mechanically bonded. The layer of solid gold is much thicker than with vermeil plating, making gold filled jewellery more durable and long-lasting. It is also far more affordable than solid gold. The main point to note with gold filled is that if it is deeply scratched, the base metal core could be exposed. However, the gold will not 'wear away' like gold plating, and with gentle wear, it should last for years.

The Twisted Ring in Gold Filled

9ct Gold

9ct gold jewellery is made from solid gold and has a purity of 37.5%. It has no base metal core, making it far more durable and less prone to tarnishing. With proper care, it can last a lifetime. This option is more suitable for daily wear than alternatives, but it is also much more costly than other options, such as gold filled. Available in yellow, rose, and white varieties, it caters to personal preferences.

In the case of white gold, it can be made with or without a rhodium plated top layer. This layer gives white gold its bright white appearance and protects it from scratches. However, it may wear away over time and require replating. Without this layer, white gold has a more 'yellow' tinge but is still much whiter than yellow gold.

The Wishbone in 9ct Yellow Gold

Caring for Your Breastmilk Jewellery

I'm always happy to answer any questions on the different metals available and their pros and cons for breastmilk jewellery. It is important to note that breastmilk jewellery is delicate due to the nature of the breastmilk stone. Therefore, it should be worn gently and removed for certain activities to keep it looking its best. For more information, please see my aftercare page.

Conclusion

Choosing the right metal for your breastmilk jewellery is essential. Each option has its unique qualities and considerations. Whether you prefer the affordability of silver, the elegance of gold vermeil, the durability of gold filled, or the timeless beauty of 9ct gold, there is a perfect choice for everyone.

If you have any questions or need assistance in selecting the right metal, feel free to reach out. Your breastmilk jewellery is a cherished keepsake, and I am here to help you make it last.